Thursday, October 2, 2008

invisible...

Ever feel invisible to someone? It's a terrible feeling. It's especially tough when, at one time, you were important to that person, and there doesn't seem to be a reason for the change. I know that when this happens, I shouldn't care so much about that person/those people, shouldn't care what they think, shouldn't place such importance on the fact that I'm now invisible to them.

But I do. And I can't help it. And it's hard.

4 comments:

Mary said...

You wouldn't be who you are if it didn't matter. It sucks to be invisible to someone. No way around it, over it or through it. Just please know that you are not invisible to everyone.

Mary

KP said...

Happens to the best of us at some point in time. The important thing is to acknowledge it and then try and focus on the people who see you for what you truly are.

Runnin-From-The-Law said...

Yep, and in my experience, it usually isn't a sign that there is something wrong with you, but something wrong/going on with the person who is treating you that way. If the person was/is important to you, don't give up on him or her. Just be patient and the person will probably come around.

That being said, it does suck and make you feel cruddy. Hang in there!

solarpowered said...

Thanks, guys. I should have said it sooner, but your comments are greatly appreciated. :)